How to Attract Older Women

 

There are numerous reasons why a younger man would like to learn how to attract older women. Some want the feeling of an independent woman to take care of him and his needs sexually and materially. While some just want to try the experience of dating an older woman and learning something those women in their 20s cannot provide due to lack of information and experience.

In today’s world it is no longer unusual for older women to be dating younger men. In fact we see it on the daily celebrity newsstand. Madonna, J.Lo. Demi Moore, Drew Barrymore is just some of the women in their 40s who are dating and marrying younger men. So how can you get the attention of older women and attract them?

Be Confident

There are times where in the older woman would be the one to approach a younger man at the bar, pub or parties. This is because they already know what they want and how to communicate it. Most women in their 40s are still attractive, earn middle-class incomes, choose not to get married and can live without the help of a man.

Once an older woman approaches, be confident and flirt around, just like dating younger women nothing has changed with regards to the fact that woman are attracted with men who have confidence and trust on their own skills.

Be Spontaneous and Creative

Older women have already met a lot of men and are not easily persuaded to take interest with men who have not even travelled or finished a book. If you are still focusing on winning computer games and other video games then do not expect to win the attention of older women.

Older woman are a bit of a challenge because they would like men who are interesting to get to know. You should be able to provide an interesting conversation and you need to be up for almost anything. This means you would have to read books that are most sought out by women their age.

Be Open-minded

Women in their 40s or 50s considered as cougars are expert at this dating game. They know what they want from younger men and you have to be flexible enough. Most of them will be open to a lot of things and have the tendency to be adventurous. Be willing to test things you have never tried before and impress her.

Give sincere compliments

If in college you can just compliment any girl and you will gain a shot at getting them to bed this method does not work for cougars. Avoid using any pick-up lines because they never really work. It would be best to observe her and provide a genuine compliment, make sure it’s an original one because older women are more intelligent.

Avoid mentioning too much personal facts

If you are just getting to know her, avoid talking about your kids and if you have already been divorced. Stick to other topics like other personal things going in your life, talk about emotions and deeper stuff. Avoid talking about your job or her job, gear the conversation into interesting facts about life.