Girls like it when you flirt with them, it’s no secret. However, an attempt to score points with a girl via flattery can yield undesirable results if the wrong approach is taken. Here are a few tips when flirting with a pretty girl.
Be Yourself
You need to be yourself when flirting with a girl. It is not advisable to try what everything you see in the movies on a girl. Chances are high that most of these moves will fail. Movies follow a pre-written script. The same cannot be said about real life conversations. You should not expect your date’s answers to be similar to those given by actors in the movies. Just create interesting conversation and you are on the right track. Talk about the movie for example, instead of using pick up lines from it.
Using pick up lines is another issue that one should be careful about when flirting with a pretty lady. A pick up line is a great way of striking conversation with a lady for the first time. If over-used however, it can be rather irritating. Of course, it is not a bad idea to drop in one or two of these during the conversation where they are applicable. Excessive use of pick up lines tends to make conversations technical and unnatural, it will feel like the conversation is being forced. Just let the conversation flow.
Sense of Humor
Flirting and humor will always go together. It is a well- known fact that women love men with a sense of humor. Crack a joke here and there as you flirt with that girl. Even if she does not laugh out loud, she will smile or chuckle a bit, and you will have scored some points with her. It is important however to ensure that your jokes are appropriate. Don’t make toilet jokes for example, when having dinner with a lady. The humor must blend in well with the situation.
There are topics you will want to avoid joking about when flirting with a girl. Top on this list is the woman’s weight. This is one very emotive issue among women. Do not dare make a joke about her weight. You also want to avoid jokes that touch on issues she holds close to her heart. If she is passionate about animal rights for example, you cannot make a joke that is demeaning to the animal kingdom. Apart from being an aid to the entire flirting process, humor also serves to lower the level of tension between the two people. So you get to kill two birds with one stone by being humorous.
Show Interest
Perhaps the one thing you should never forget when flirting with a pretty lady is that you should always show interest in what she says. There are no two ways about this. The moment she realizes you are not interested in what she is saying, she will automatically lose interest in you. You don’t want to try flirting with a girl who has no interest in you. Unfortunately, the truth is that you may at times not be genuinely interested in the particular topic the girl wants to talk about. In such a case, there are only two options. You either develop an interest in the topic there and then or change the topic without making it obvious that you lack interest in what she was saying. It is easier to change the topic than to feign interest.
Pay Attention to Detail
Women love men who pay attention to detail. Any successful flirting campaign must be accompanied by noticing of the fine details about the girl and complimenting her. Tell her how beautiful her hair looks, how neatly done her nails are and so on. She will get the impression that you really are interested in her to the extent that you noticed her hair-do and nails etc. There is no girl who does not enjoy being complimented. This is why girls take ages to do their make-up and choose the right dress. If you end up not giving her a single compliment after she has made such a great effort to look good, chances are that she will be disappointed and she will respond negatively to your flirting attempt.
Read Body Language
You need to understand how to read body language and how to interpret body language when flirting with a girl. Too often, girls will not be bold enough to tell a man that they are not interested in him. They however pass this message in a number of indirect ways. If she concentrates more on other things other than your conversation, she is clearly not interested. If she pulls out her phone for example and starts texting or doing something else in the middle of the conversation, she is bored. She just doesn’t want to rub it in your face.
Her style of conversation can also give a hint as to whether she is interested or not. If she constantly gives one word answers like ‘yeah’, ‘okay and ‘cool’ she is trying to kill the conversation. Let it go. Of course, if she is interested, she will do the opposite.
Be Flexible
Last but not least, you need to be flexible when flirting with a pretty girl. Do not use the same flirting technique on every lady you flirt with. Each of them is different. What works on one may not work on the other. You need to adapt to the unique situation that comes with flirting with a different lady and make the most out of it.
Final Words
Flirting with a girl is not rocket science. You only need to master the tricks of the trade and you’re good to go. You can flirt your way into a relationship quite easily once you know how to go about it.
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